Lending a book without losing it for good
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Everyone has a book lent "a while ago, to someone", and can't say who or when. It isn't carelessness. You never write these things down because, at the time, it's obvious.
Three facts
The person's name, the date, the book. It takes seconds, and it makes the question "who has it?" easy.
Add a return date only if it truly matters. A loan without a deadline is still a loan, and nobody is embarrassed.
Asking without friction
A plain message works better than a reproach: "I'm sorting my shelves, do you still have the book I lent you?" Qimtar drafts that message for WhatsApp from the record; you only press send.
The book you won't see again
Sometimes it doesn't return. Mark it as lost rather than leave it among the books you own, so the catalogue stays faithful to what your shelves actually hold.